Engagement rings represent one of the most expensive items of jewellery that most men will buy in their lifetimes. Men are often advised to spend one or two month’s salary on the engagement ring, but to be honest, it is hard to generalize and the budget should really be down to the preferences of an individual or couple. This being said, it is possible to find rings for every budget and so there is no need to panic if you are looking at rings below a certain price. Diamonds are cut in all sizes and can be added to most styles of design. They also vary enormously in quality and colour and so it is possible to find a diamond to fit in with your price.
The classic style of engagement rings has to be the diamond solitaire. Seen in its simplest and most elegant form, contemporary styles feature a central diamond held by four claws on a band of white gold or platinum. This though is only one of thousands of styles, each designed to meet many individual tastes.
There are various parts to engagement rings, each styled differently. These can be broken down into.
- The Diamond
- The Setting
- The Shoulders
- The Shank
Engagement rings can have a variety of settings. This is essentially the part that holds the diamond. They can secure the stone with claws or prongs, or with metal as in bezel or rubbed over settings. The latter is where the metal that the diamond is set in, is pushed over the very edge of the diamond, neatly to secure it. When it comes to princess cut engagement rings, claws need to protect the corners of the diamond. This is often why we find box claws at each corner. They basically just cover each corner in a “V” shape, offering protection. The classic tiffany style is another timeless design in these rings. This type of setting often has six claws and the diamond is held up with light being allowed to enter the setting. Modern variations of this are numerous, each being a variation on a theme.
The shank itself can vary greatly. If you were to cut through the shank, you would see an outline or profile. This can vary from flat, to “D” shape or most commonly court, which is curved on the inside and the outside. The curved inner surface offers a very comfortable fit which has remained very popular for many years. Where the shank meets the setting, we call the shoulders which to be honest, is a good analogy for this part of the ring. The design of these can vary from intricate designs, narrowing or tapered shoulders, diamond set shoulders, or even shoulders that cross over on each side of the setting.
Our advice for men is to look at the jewellery that your soon to be fiancé owns. Look at the styles of jewellery and the colour of metal she normally wears, whether it be yellow gold or white gold, or a combination. Many rings exist in all these combinations. Would she like something elegant and simple? In this case you would possibly be wise to consider a simple diamond solitaire.
If you want something a little different, why not choose an alternative shape of diamond. Engagement rings featuring round, square (princess cut & carre cut), rectangular (baguette cut), pear shaped and even triangle shaped (trilliant) diamonds are available.
If you are unsure of what type of diamond to go for, why not make some inquiries. Provide the retailer with a ball park price and they will respond with what is available. Give as much information as possible on the metal, style and shape of diamond and they will offer some suggestions of different ones available. They may even suggest some special offers running.
The next difficult task you have if it is a surprise, and one not to forget about is the ring size. You will have to borrow a ring she wears on the third finger and measure the diameter, or to have a jeweler measure the size. Make sure to provide the jeweler with this information though as it is essential when making engagement rings to order.